The Holidays

Thanksgiving was a great trip back to Colorado to see family and friends, even though it was short. It snowed while we were there, so it was nice to wake up to a bit of frosting on the trees!

Baby Wassmer is doing just fine. I haven't been sick at all, just tired a lot, but even that seems to be tapering off. I am now 10 weeks and starting to show...but not the "pregnant" show, more like the "that girl needs to lay off the potato chips" kind of show. Perhaps in a few weeks I'll look more pregnant. Our next appointment is this week, so I'll be sure to post any updates!

It's officially Christmas season! We have our tree up, Payton has her light-up collar and the truck has its wreath with the lights on it. Yes, everything has lights on it! We will be leaving the 23rd or 24th to head to New Jersey for Christmas with the Wassmer family. Payton will be traveling with us! She's pretty excited to see Grammy and Pops and head back to beach...even if it's freezing. While we're there Tom and I are going to see Phantom on Broadway and we might hit up Times Square for New Years (depending on how I feel).

The Heart Beat

Today Tom and I went to the doctor for our first visit, and it went well. We got to do an ultrasound, so we saw the baby blob (not quite defined yet), and got to hear the heart beat. It was really cool because the beating was very loud and clear, going about 130 bpm. It was so neat to see that little heart beat as well. The motion can't be caught on a still shot, of course, but we tried to take a picture of the picture, so forgive us that it's not quite clear. For me, hearing the heart beat at 6 weeks (when many women don't even know they're pregnant yet) takes the whole "choice" thing out of it. The Lord is good to bless us with children, and I can't wait to welcome this little one into the world near or on July 12!

Newest News

We're back with the latest news! As most of you might know already, and some not yet, Tom and I are going to have a baby! I discovered my little pink plus sign nearly 2 weeks ago, and my doctors appointment is next week to determine the actual age and due date. It is truly a blessing, and a wonderful feeling (even though I have no symptoms yet). I just can't believe I'm actually pregnant and that we're going to bring the biggest blessing the Lord could give into this world. This means He thinks we're ready and capable! I guess He knows better than we do. He always does. And to think that I get to experience this all for His glory, in His plan, and that He allows me to be a part of His purposes. We are praying for protection for this little one and that it will remain in place for the next few months! Please join us in our prayers for a healthy baby, coming sometime in July.

Exciting Things!

Six months of marriage and I am loving it! We just moved into our new home we're renting from some friends, and it is so nice to have the extra space. One more term of school down, only 2 more to go! New things are developing, and I'm sure there will be some new updates coming soon! Stay tuned...

Harvest Time!

Hello all!

Much has happened since August! I just finished my 2nd term in school, and only 3 more to go! I still enjoy it and I still have all A's. Tom has been working two jobs, SkyWest, and the other is with a man from our church who does contracting work. Tom really enjoys it because he can get his hands dirty, dig and build.

Two weeks ago a brand new Chic-Fil-A opened here in Fresno. It was the best breakfast I've had since I moved here. I was there bright and early to watch the 1st 100 customers go in and get their prices (I was not one of them), but I probably was 101 since no one else was there yet. For those of you who know, Chic-Fil-A was one of my favorite places in Jacksonville and when I moved to Fresno I was totally bummed that there wasn't one. The Lord has answered my prayes!

Last weekend was a baby shower for a lady in my church. I helped orchestrate the ordeal, and it turned out nicely. This lady and her husband have been trying to get pregnant for over 3 years and after studies were done, it was found that her husband was almost sterile. It's been a miracle baby summer for our church. She's not the only one with babies who have defied the odds!

Tom and I are still praying about his move to Captain, which could possibly take us somewhere else. The other place we'd consider is Denver. So we'll see. I was also able to sell my car this week! Sad to say goodbye to Sid, but glad to see the monthly payments gone. Here's a picture as a memorial. I told Tom that he promises me a new Honda again one day.

Wassmer's in full swing

Hello all! Things have gotten underway since the last post. I am now more than half way done with my first term at San Joaquin Valley College, already drawing people's blood! My fingers and arms have been quite sore. Tom has put in for an upgrade in the jet, but it doesn't look like there's going to be a class anytime soon. We'll just have to enjoy the senority he has for now. For my 26th birthday, Tom took me out on the lake and made dinner on the boat. It was fun. We had chicken and rice, with shrimp as an appetizer. We used all the camping gear we got from our wedding registry - how cute! After we got home, we got all dressed up and went to a nice restaurant for a drink.

I start volunteering at the Children's Hospital next week. I am going to be a greeter in the NICU center, which is exactly where I wanted to be! The Lord is good. NICU is the neo-natal intensive care unit. I am not sure I'll be dealing with the babies as much as I will the parents. I am looking forward to it. Other than that, not much is going on. Tom is in the garage right now doing his wood working, Payton is at my feet tired as can be from this morning's run, and I am about to study and probably do some painting. Until next time!

Home from Tucson

Our trip to Tucson was a success! Tom and I worked with a team to paint two buildings, inside and out. It was not an easy task since the buildings were made of handmade, porous bricks! We also helped lead a Vacation Bible School for the local church. We had a lesson from the Bible, a craft, an activity and snacks. I was in charge of the outdoor activities and Tom ended up leading the teens through some deeper spiritual matters. It was a challenge for him since we did not expect teens. The flyer we put out said "ages 6-12." But it was in the Lord's plans! Another challenge for him was that 1/2 of the group spoke only Spanish and the other half only English. He did get help from a translator. All in all it was a good trip, and as Tom's first missions trip, I am glad that the Lord challenged him (all of us) and allowed him to experience Christians in another culture.

Another development that has happened quickly is that I registered for school! The day I graduated UNF I said I'd never go back to school. Well, I am going to a vocational tech school to be a Medical Assistant, and I start Monday! I am excited to change areas of profession, and we are praying that in the end I'll have a job at the Children's Hospital here in the valley. I've been trying to get a job there for over a year, and without any medical experience, it's quite near impossible to get a foot in the door! In 7 months I'll be done - my goals are to be a valedictorian and get my externship at the Children's Hospital.

We also just found out that SkyWest is adding a base to LAX, which means, possibly, some senior captains here in FAT just might move. This would help make an opportunity for Tom to be able to upgrade to captain here! This is huge news for us! So we are definitely praying for that!

Mission to Tucson

This Saturday Tom and I are heading to Tucson with some people from our church for a short-term, one week, mission. We are teaming up with Corazon Ministries to help lead a Vacation Bible School for the kids and help with any church needs (painting, weeding, etc). This church is located in the southern part of Tucson, which is mostly all hispanic and poor. They have a bitterness towards the US since the purchase of their land years ago.
This will be Tom's first mission trip and I am so excited to see what the Lord does in our hearts there. By God's grace we were supported 100% financially, even though the letters went out last minute! To this day, I still have not paid a dollar for my beach projects, retreats and missions trips. God is faithful!
I will be sure to post pictures later, and keep you updated on what's going on!

Maui

We spent a week in Maui for our honeymoon and it was wonderful! Maui has just enough to do and not to do. The weather was great, we relaxed, spent time in the sun, went to the top of a volcano (inactive) and watched the sunrise then rode bikes down the mountain. We snorkeled in the bluest water ever, swam with turtles and drove the road to Hana. Hana is a small town on the other side of the island and you have to take this nearly one-way road, 20+ switchbacks, to get there. It took all day, but we got to see the rainforest and waterfalls. We were blessed this entire trip, starting with a sweet and romantic "first night," First Class seats to Maui, an upgrade on our rental car, an ocean view room and we even met someone who was able to give us a deal to one of the islands best luau's. Maui is expensive to visit though. Eating out will empty your bank quicker than the tide will pull you out to sea! It was so much fun and of course I wish I never had to leave. I am sure we'll go back someday, and I can't wait. I can't wait for other excursions as husband and wife. God is so, so good.

Photography by Veronica Campbell

Mr. and Mrs. Wassmer

On May 3, 2008, Tom and I got married! Finally, the day came...and went. It was a beautiful wedding and I can't wait to see the ceremony video. It was a blur, and as I look as pictures I am able to see who was there to share this day. The only regret I have - time management. We arrived to our reception almost an hour late and I had NO IDEA! For all those who traveled long distances to see us, I apologize, but thank you deeply for coming. It was still fun and a wonderful day. Being married hasn't really set in I think, because I am on my honeymoon and I feel like when I get home I still have to send Tom home. Oh but how my life has changed overnight, and I am excited to see how the Lord is going to bless our new life together. He has already blessed our honeymoon greatly. First of all, we received this location and hotel (which is amazing) as a gift, we got first class seats to Maui, an upgrade on our car rental and an ocean view room when we checked in. Maui has been beautiful! An excellent honeymoon location in my opinion. There's plenty to do and plenty not to do.
I pray the Lord will continue to work in Tom and I as we seek Him first in all things, especially our marriage. May He extend His grace and mercy as we learn to live together, and to love and respect each other. God has been so good to me to give me such a wonderful husband. I am still on cloud nine, I just can't believe I am married!

April Fools

Today was April first and I had a few tricks for my roomies. They got some Orajel in the toothbrush, shaving cream on the car, saran wrap in the doorway, and I even had a certain religous group call my roommate because I told them she was interested in converting.
No harm, fun tricks.
Today wasn't all jokes though. The economy has been terrible and people just aren't buying things, companies aren't making profit - including mine. My position was cut and today was my last day at work. This comes 30 days before the wedding! I trust that God knows what He's doing. This did not take him by surprise. It didn't really surprise me either. I am a bit nervous because Tom and I had already set a financial plan in place to help pay off our debt as fast as we could, but that will be put on a slower track until I find a new job. I am not sure I be searching for a new job right now, only to turn around and tell them I need a week long vacation right after they hire me. Some companies don't care, some just aren't that flexible. We'll see. Any income, any new jobs, it is all up to the Lord. I'll let Him provide - He's better at doing that anyway.
With 4 more weeks until the wedding, I'm just not sure I have time to be stressed out. I can't afford the emotions to freak out and be anxious. I'll be sure to keep you posted!

On My Knees,
BK

Us!

This is one of my favorite engagement pics! Just in time for the blossoms in March.

5 weeks left!

Only 5 more weeks and I will be Mrs. Wassmer! The Lord has been so good to Tom and I as we've prepared for our lives together. Every detail has been provided, and this experience has definitely brought us closer together. The waiting seems almost unbearable! I know it will be here as soon as I know it, but until then, I just wait.